Whatever your status is right now, whether you and your spouse just got married or are at the edge of your first marital conflict, or you’ve been married for so many years and aren’t sure if you can handle just one more conflict, a psychic reading can help. Regardless of how long you’ve been in the relationship before the two of you decided to marry – it doesn’t matter. The commitment of marriage does change the vibration of the relationship to some point.

Provide Insight About the Problems

Since psychics connect with universal energy for a glimpse into the past, present, and future, they can provide couples with knowledge about things in life that have brought them to this point. For instance, if one partner was hurt deeply in a previous relationship or has trust issues as a result of a previous relationship, this could be causing problems in the new relationship, despite the fact that the other partner hasn’t done anything to cause trust issues.

Help You Identify the Source of the Problem

Sometimes, couples may think they know and understand the source of the problem. In “knowing” the problem, they come up with solutions to fix it. However, when they try something that doesn’t work, they either move on to the next thing, or they give up and deem the relationship broken beyond repair.

A psychic reading may indicate the problem is something entirely different from what either member of the couple recognized. How can you truly fix a problem if you don’t even know the problem exists in the first place or where the problem is coming from? Understanding the core issues at hand is the first step to working through them.

Provide Guidance and Advice to Repair the Issues

Once the psychic provides help, you see the problems in the marriage and where they are coming from, they can also provide guidance and advice to help you navigate through them. If you take the advice, you should be able to get through the other side of the issues as a stronger, happier, and healthier couple.

However, remember that a psychic cannot predict the future. Therefore, it is up to you and your partner to follow the advice and work on the relationship. If one person follows the advice while the other does not, chances are it will not end well.

Help You Determine When it is Time to Let Go

There are some instances where a relationship is broken beyond repair. If you are part of an abusive relationship, it is typically better to let go and move on from the marriage than to try to repair it constantly. For some, even when abuse is not present, the relationship just isn’t meant to be. The universe says otherwise, and no matter what either party does (or doesn’t do), the marriage just won’t work out.

If this happens to be the case with your relationship, the psychic can help both parties see what needs to be done so the split can be amicable (especially if children are involved). The psychic can also help both parties see what needs to be done so they can each find happiness in their lives after the split.

Marriage, like a child or a pet, is a living, breathing organism that must be nurtured and cared for to make it through life’s daily trials and tribulations. Unfortunately, it takes two willing partners to work through the stresses. If you or your partner are at your wit’s end and feel like you’ve tried everything you can to improve the situation, try meeting with a psychic for a reading. It can help make all the difference in your relationship. It may even save your marriage.

It’s important to consider that psychics can only provide guidance. They cannot tell you what the future holds because you still have free will. If the psychic suggests you do one thing to help repair your marriage, and you do the opposite, then obviously, the future of your marriage will be affected.

If you visit a psychic for help with your marriage, it may also be a good idea to combine that with counseling to add more tools to your arsenal. For example, if you find a core issue you were not aware of, therapy may help you strengthen yourself as an individual, and it may help you build stronger bonds as a couple. You determine your pathway, so get advice and then choose what is best for your relationship.

All through life, it can be hard for perfect partners to meet. Meeting your perfect partner may not be the least demanding thing for you to do. There are certain occasions that can keep two individuals from meeting each other in the end. Still, the situation’s reality will eventually become obvious when you meet your perfect partner. Others will say that you will know when that time comes. Although you may even now have inquiries and just need to recognize what you are searching for as you are discovering your perfect partner. Psychic love readings can offer you answers that others may not have in regard to this issue.

 Love Psychic Readings and Your Soulmate

Many people will question their current relationships and wonder if they are with their soulmates. You may be unable to come up with a solution on your own to that question. However, there are certain things that can help you determine if you are with your soulmate. In addition, certain things about this current relationship will be different from your other relationships. Therefore, when determining if you are with your soulmate, it is helpful if you can see what is different about this relationship from the ones you have had in the past.

Here is a list of 5 specific signs to look for in determining if you are with your soulmate using love psychic readings:

• Instant Connection: If you felt an instant connection the first time you met, this may mean you have found your soulmate. Suppose there was something that brought you two together, such as an unknown force or maybe even a nudge to be at a certain place. If you felt very comfortable around the person and felt like you could share anything, then this would be a person that you would want to get to know more. If you seemed to click right away and had hours of conversation, this could definitely be your soulmate, and a love psychic readings can lead you to them!
• Your Not Into Playing Games: When you first start dating the person, you notice that they do not play any head games with you, and you do not play any head games with them. The relationship starts out being open and honest. There are no games being played on either side. You may even discuss how much you dislike game playing. It also seems like all the cards are on the table, and there are no hidden agendas. There is an open line of communication and honesty. Since soulmates will not waste their time playing games with each other, you may have finally had a love psychic reading that lead you to your soulmate.
• Your Values Match: When two people that are soulmates are together, they usually share the same values. Therefore, they usually do not have much to argue about or debate over. Instead, they will share views on religion and life purposes without hesitation.
• You Respect Each Other: Soulmates have love and respect for each other. They will not do things to hurt each other. They want to make sure that their soulmate is happy and will not do anything disrespectful to them. Soulmates are supportive of each other. They want the best for their soulmate. They believe in them and are a positive influence on each other.
• You Are Best Friends: Soulmates are also best friends. They are happy around each other, and all of their needs are met when they are together. Your soulmate will have all the qualities of a best friend and lover rolled into one. Your soulmate will make you feel complete, and you will not feel that you need many other friends. You will be happy and content with their company. You will not feel like you are missing out on anything. You will be able to communicate on a unique level with your soulmate, which makes your time with them more important than anything else.

Now that you understand the 5 points to love psychic readings, you can go out and find your soulmate. Remember, many people believe we have more than one soulmate, despite the old idea that there is only one true person for us. Whatever YOU believe, you can be sure that love psychic readings will help you find him, her, or them!

Breakups have for quite some time been connected with hurt and pain, rejection, and a feeling of guilt. But, in any case, it shouldn’t be that way. On the contrary, it’s a great opportunity to enjoy the separation’s respectable expectations, which include freedom, happiness, and the pursuit of true love. So, if you suppose it’s an ideal opportunity to end your current relationship, here are ways to keep that choice as guilt-free as possible.

Face Your Partner
Some people take the coward’s way out and break up with their partners via text or email. Others take the cowardly route of just avoiding or ghosting their partners. Give your partner the respect they deserve by breaking up with them in person. It makes you look mature and potentially prevents a big scene. You don’t want to look like a bigger jerk than you have to when you’re breaking someone’s heart.

There’s No “Right Time”
When it comes to breakups, there is no right time. If you’re unhappy, chances are your partner is unhappy too. There is always going to be a horrible boss, rude driver, bad shopping trip, or something else that ruins their day. And let’s face it, if you want to leave the relationship, you aren’t too interested in comforting someone who you no longer have romantic feelings for. The right time to break up is now.

Don’t Keep Their Hopes Up
If you’ve decided to break up with them, don’t back down when the tears start to flow. Don’t let them guilt you into another chance. If the relationship is over, giving it another chance is only going to postpone the inevitable.

Get In and Get Out
Some of the worst breakups in my life have been the ones that drag on for hours. The worst, in fact, was three hours long. You don’t need to drag a breakup on because it’s only going to delay the start of the healing process for you and your ex. So get in, state your feelings, end things, and get out.

Don’t Blame Them 
Breakups are not about placing blame. This isn’t the time to dump all the blame on your partner. Also, you don’t have to go into too much detail. They know the story; they were there. Finally, a great rule of thumb is to use “I statements.” For example: “I haven’t been happy for the last six months, and I want to end things.”

Leave On a Positive Note
Even if you are mad and frustrated with your partner, it’s best to leave things on a positive note. Don’t give them a reason to feel vindictive, and don’t hurt them more. And ex will remember your kind words long after you’ve parted ways.

Remember, it’s Okay to Feel Happy
You don’t have to fake sadness if the breakup makes you happy. Sure, it’s best not to throw your happiness in your ex’s face, but you shouldn’t feel guilty about feeling happy or relieved once the breakup happens—especially if you were respectful and kind in your exit.

Once you’ve done what is best for both of you, you can pursue new love guilt-free. Just make sure you take the time to process your mistakes in this last relationship. Breaking up does not mean you have to break apart the other person, so do what is necessary and allow both people to move forward as unscathed as possible.

Finding love isn’t that hard. Nowadays, dating websites are so common. So, in theory, they should be able to help you find your soulmate easier than in the old times, especially now with our modern technology. But let’s be realistic. Some of the people you’ve met on dating websites or were introduced to you by a common friend are not of the same level of commitment as you were.

There’s a better way to find your soulmate. Instead of trying to find them using technology, why not tap into your own intuitive abilities?

Here are three tips to get you started:

1. Learn to Trust Your Gut
   That little voice in your head you hear right before making a decision or after you meet someone new is a valuable tool. Forget being logical; that voice is your gut instinct or intuition. Gut reactions aren’t random; they’re guided instruction, have been around longer, and are more trustworthy than any dating app or website. If you’re interested in someone or think they’re a great match, check in with your feelings first. If you feel like something is off, trust that feeling. If you ignore it, it’s only going to become more prominent.

3. Forget the Past
   Some people have problems trusting their gut because they can’t determine if their reactions stem from the present moment or if they are clouded by something from their past. Perhaps they were burned by someone before. Perhaps their new love interest resembles an old flame in some way. While learning from past mistakes is important, it’s also important to not lump all potential soulmates into the “no” category just because they look or act like an ex. A past memory isn’t the same as your intuition, so don’t confuse the two.
4. Go Beyond the Physical Looks
   Have you ever been speed dating or went to a singles event and been immediately attracted to or turned off by someone without talking to them? If you want to find your soulmate, it’s important to dig deeper than the superficial. Of course, being attracted to someone is important, but we all know looks fade while feelings stick around forever.

Some Things to Consider

In order to activate your intuition, you’ll need to become more aware of your feelings and your body. For example, does your energy shift (in a good or bad way) while in this person’s presence? Do you feel confident, heard, energized, and safe when you are with them? When they laugh or joke, does it come off as genuine, or does it seem forced or like an act? When you part ways, do you find it hard to say goodbye? Can you talk to them for hours on end? Do you feel like you’ve met before or knew them in a past life? If you can answer yes to these questions, you’ve probably met your soulmate or twin flame! Trust yourself to make the best decision based on that deep down gut feeling.

After going through two serious relationships, I’ve finally learned the secrets of how to maintain a healthy one. First, we should be able to differentiate the difference between having chemistry and having an actual physical bond with each other. Then, these two should be maintained in a relationship. It may or may not seem like common sense to some of you, but this is my story. This is how I found the key.

I met a woman in college. She was cool. I liked her, and she liked me. Simple enough, right? We were from two completely different worlds, but we found common ground in a few things, albeit mostly the wrong ones. We were young and confused, and we didn’t see eye to eye about much of anything.

One thing we did manage to find common ground on was the simple fact that we cared about each other tremendously. We both non-verbally agreed to show up every day and give it our all.

We fought, and we fought hard pretty most every day. That was until we couldn’t anymore. But somewhere along the line, we established a bond. Though things didn’t work out romantically, we maintained a great friendship six years later due partly to said bond.

A couple of years after the demise of my college relationship, I met another young lady with whom I hit it off immediately. It was almost like something out of a movie. We got each other’s jokes, had the same taste in music and movies, and even shared some of the same vices and tastes in after-hours spots.

We even finished each other’s sentences. OK, I’m lying; we didn’t finish each other’s sentences. That doesn’t happen, and if it does happen, you are extremely corny. Oh, and did I mention the sex? The sex was absolutely crazy. We had great chemistry, to say the least. However, when things went south between us, they went all the way, Key West south.

We would fight and then go for days without speaking to each other. Days would eventually turn into weeks; weeks turned into months, and so forth. It was a complete disaster. We were two very scorned and prideful individuals who liked each other but didn’t quite care enough to put our hearts all the way on the line. Painful experiences and mistrust kept both of us from doing so and creating the bond that would have made our illustrious relationship survive the test of time.

While I ended up establishing meaningful friendships with both of these beautiful young ladies, I believe that both romantic relationships ultimately failed because chemistry means nothing without a bond present, and vice versa.

Chemistry is simply defined as the interaction of one personality with another. On the other hand, a bond is defined as something that binds, fastens, or holds together. It’s the actual connection that brings the two chemically compatible elements together. It’s the passion and the acknowledgment that you’re there for each other through thick and thin. You don’t necessarily need to exchange vows and commit at the altar, but a lot of work is necessary in order to establish a bond.

Hydrogen and oxygen combine to form one of the most abundant and important substances known to man. However, putting the two elements next to each other won’t make water. Instead, it takes some kind of actual chemical reaction in order for the desired molecule to form. This is called a bond.

I was a liberal arts major, so take my science with a grain of sodium chloride. The proper bonding action needed in relationships is communication and commitment on behalf of both parties to at least work hard to try and make things work.

It is also imperative that it can work. If the two parties are completely apples and oranges, you can probably forget about it. All the bonding power in the world won’t keep you together. (Sorry, I didn’t invent physics.) The thing is, these two concepts cannot exist exclusively in a successful relationship. As I learned, you can’t have chemistry without a bond (or vice versa) and expect things to last. It just does not work like that. I do, however, believe that in some cases, if you have only one (or none) of these two bare necessities, the missing aspect can be developed with a lot of work.

If you lack chemistry, figure out some of the things the two of you have in common. Or better yet, build on those things. Try new things together, go to new places, and listen to some new music that neither of you has listened to.

Just find ways to grow closer. Dig deep down into yourselves to try to find as much common ground as possible. You may even learn new things about yourself that you did not know before meeting this person. If there is no bond present, you must communicate and establish trust. Be as open as possible with one another.

Always be sure that the two of you are on the same page regarding your intentions for the relationship. Make a vow to give it your all, if nothing else. Make it your business to ensure sure that 100 percent is given by both parties so that even if things don’t work out, you won’t end up hating the other person in the long run.

If both of you make an honest effort to establish these two facets and things still don’t work out, then at least you can say you gave it your all. The likelihood of regret is greatly reduced when you put your best foot forward, even in the face of total failure. From my experience, this also makes a healthy friendship much more likely after time has passed.

Great chemistry and a deep bond are the most important relationship goals. Once you have established both of these concepts, the rest of the relationship should be able to grow just fine.

Trying to dodge around the dating world without setting yourself up for a fall is hard work. Unfortunately, most guys and gals are too shy to admit that they’re hella hot for each other; in fact, research by Match.com suggests that only 37 percent of singles are brave enough to flat out ask someone if they’re available.

So if you’re there thinking no one ever chats you up and wondering how to get a god darn date, then it might be the case that you’re just not picking up on the signals right in front of you.

With that in mind, here are some top tips on boosting your chances of getting a date without asking.

Passionate Creativity

Being a good flirt is one way to spark someone’s interest, but being a creative and savvy navigator will put you in the driver’s seat while making your intended date do all the asking. Afterward, they may wonder how it all happened, but they’ll be so impressed with your passionate creativity that they’ll hardly give it a second thought.

To get a date without asking, Amiira Ruotola, the wife of Greg Behrendt, who co-authored the book “He’s Just Not That Into You,” suggests that a little imagination and ingenuity can go a long way. Giving someone a window of opportunity to ask you out will make it seem like it was mostly their idea. She suggests saying this:

“Oh my gosh! I don’t know if you know this, but this incredible window just opened up in the space-time continuum, and if you ask me out in the next five minutes, I’m going to say, ‘Yes.’”

Anyone who may be interested in you who also has a good sense of humor will hop on that opportunity in a minute. But you can give them the full five minutes if they’re a little slow on the draw. Putting a time limit on anything creates a sense of urgency. It says, acts now or lose the opportunity. This also adds a layer of spontaneity that makes it fun and exciting for the other person.

The Psychological Approach

If you want to take a more measured and cerebral approach, try taking the advice of Jeremy Nicholson, Ph.D., who is also known as “The Attraction Doctor.” Here are his five suggestions for taking an indirect approach to getting that date:

1. Make an indirect suggestion. Get what you want by proposing subtle alternatives.

You: What are your plans for the weekend?
Them: I was thinking about going fishing.
You: I was thinking about going to that movie you mentioned, would you like to come?

2. Make them think it was their idea to ask you out.

You: That restaurant you mentioned sounds great, maybe you’d like to go?
Them: Sure, why don’t we go there tomorrow night?

3. Make them come up with reasons not to do something (which can be difficult to do).

You: Your plans for the weekend sound fun. I’m going to see an art exhibit; perhaps you’d like to go?
Them: Sure, why don’t we go together?

4. Get them to go on that date by suggesting that they’ll benefit from the experience.

You: That coffee shop downtown has the best cappuccino. You should try it.
Them: I will. I like cappuccino.
You: Well, I could go for another one. Would you like to go on Friday?

5. Almost anyone will rise to the challenge of a dare or a bet. Make it a fun competition.

You: I have the best idea for a date. I would … (You describe the date.) Can you top that?
Them: No way. The best date would be … (They describe the date.)
You: Not bad. Actually, it sounds really good. I want to do that. Maybe we should do that. Are you game?

Dr. Nicholson warns that although very effective, using these techniques may be construed as somewhat manipulative. Therefore, he suggests using these techniques with a friendly smile and a flirtatious heart. That’s always good advice.

As you can see, there are many ways to get a date without asking—at least not directly. Now get creative, go out there, and get that date!

As strange as it seems, every couple can benefit from some time apart.   This does not mean you should break up, but getting some physical distance between the two of you.  The benefits can help build a stronger bond between you.  This distance doesn’t include a total lack of communication. It isn’t the distance that makes relationships fall apart; a lack of effort between partners makes the romance dissolve.

There are five things you can do to help your love grow, even long distance:

1) A relationship is built on trust

It’s easy to let doubt surface when you aren’t near your partner.  This has nothing to do with who your partner is.  It’s your insecurity testing you.   If you can’t trust him from long distances, how can you trust him when he’s close to you. Learn to build trust before being separated if possible, but also follow your intuition when apart. Stay in contact without becoming obsessive and live your lives knowing one day you will be back together.

2) You will be more appreciative

As hard as it is to be away from your partner, the distance can make you cherish your love a bit more. Time apart gives you time to look forward to each other.   It also gives you more of a chance to be grateful for each other. Sometimes, always being together can get tiring and can leave you complacent about a relationship. Time spent apart allows you to miss the little things about the other person like a real laugh, someone to lie beside in bed, or even a favorite shared meal.

3) You will have better conversations

If you only have a limited time to talk, make sure that what you say is important and clearly communicated. While it can be important to discuss household issues or bills, focus your communication on loving and happy topics to keep the relationship strong. Share about your days and how much the other person is missed and appreciated.

4)The foundation of your relationship will be put to the test.

Being in a long-distance relationship can help you see things the way they really are. From a distance, things can be really clear. For some relationships this may clearly show a need to break up, but for others it can strengthen the bond of how well you work as a couple.

5) You will notice how strong you and your relationship really are.

Not every relationship can or will survive long-distance.  But, by trying, you can see if you are both willing to invest yourselves in romance that will stand the test of time. This will not always be easy, but distance can create relationships that can withstand any obstacle.

Conclusion

Distance should not be used as a test for a new relationship, but if distance has to occur, then take on the challenge with the right mindset. Focus on the suggestions above and allow your love to be tested a bit. The truth about the strength of your relationship will all become clear.

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