Finding love isn’t that hard. Nowadays, dating websites are so common. In theory, they should be able to help finding your soulmate easier than the old times especially now with our modern technology. But let’s be realistic. Some of the people you’ve met in dating websites or was introduced to you by a common friend are not of the same level of commitment as you were.
There’s a better way to find your soulmate. Instead of trying to find them using technology, why not tap into your own intuitive abilities? Here are three tips to get you started.
- Learn to Trust Your Gut
That little voice in your head you hear right before making a decision or after you meet someone new is a valuable tool. Forget being logical, that voice is your gut instinct or intuition. Gut reactions aren’t random; they’re guided instruction, and they’ve been around longer and are more trustworthy than any dating app or website could ever be. If you’re interested in someone or think they’re a great match, check in with your feelings first. If you feel like something is off, trust that feeling. If you ignore it, it’s only going to become more prominent.
- Forget the Past
Some people have problems trusting their gut because they can’t determine if their reactions stem from the present moment or if they are clouded by something from their past. Perhaps they were burned by someone before. Perhaps their new love interest resembles an old flame in some way. While learning from past mistakes is important, it’s also important to not lump all potential soulmates into the “no” category just because they look or act like an ex. A past memory isn’t the same as your intuition, so don’t confuse the two.
- Go Beyond the Physical Looks
Have you ever been speed dating or gone to a singles event and been immediately attracted to or turned off by someone without having talked to them? If you want to find your soulmate, it’s important to dig deeper than the superficial. Yes, being attracted to someone is important, but we all know looks fade while feelings stick around forever.
In order to activate your intuition you’ll need to become more aware of your feelings and your body. Does your energy shift (in a good or bad way) while in this person’s presence? When you are with them, do you feel confident, heard, energized and safe? When they laugh or joke, does it come off as genuine, or does it seem forced or like an act? When you part ways, do you find it hard to say goodbye? Can you talk to them for hours on end? Do you feel like you’ve met before or knew them in a past life? If you can answer yes to these questions, you’ve probably met your soulmate or twin flame!