We’ve been informed that the best approach to love is really direct and clear with your partner. They take us to a first date, they like us, they make arrangements and request that we select inside a month or two, they begin to look all starry eyed at and pop the inquiry. Trust me when I say that frequently folks don’t know how they feel about you over the long haul nor do they recognize what they need. What’s more, frequently the course isn’t that clear either. That is WHY giving the right impression first and foremost is vital. That is the reason I don’t prompt ringing a person. .
The problem with women in a man’s eyes is the more he gives, the more she expects and as such she’ll soon never be happy. That’s why many guys repress how they truly feel for a woman till they’re really sure they want a relationship with her because as soon as the “L” word comes out of their mouths, she’ll go nuts with her expectation.
A woman just needs to be an irresistible goddess to change that and make him see and realize, “Hey she makes it so easy to be in relationship with her!” Before he knows it, he’s already emotionally attached to you.
Why You Should Never Initiate The Relationship Talk
No ultimatum needed. Not even a talk “are we exclusive?” or “where are we going?” Let him think all the ideas come from himself because he knows now that somebody else might snatch you away if he doesn’t step up to the plate.
The less you are trying to influence him, the higher your value is in his eyes; the more radiant you look to him ’cause oh my that self-worth/esteem in you is just so damn rare in a woman.
There is no use of forcing or talking a guy into exclusivity anyway when the idea isn’t firmly planted in his heart or when he’s not emotionally there. The only commitment that works and matters from a man is the one that he feels in his gut. This is why my ex broke off his relationship with his gf and still flirt with me whenever we talk. The sooner you realize you can’t control a man, the better for you. Instead working on your desirability factor. Be a woman any guy is willing to lose a limb for. That’s the only way to “control” a guy’s mind and heart.
My client has in fact recently turned her almost 2 year friend with benefits (FWB) arrangement into a serious relationship by heeding my advice.When she changed all her anxiety-ridden, controlling behaviors he finally stepped up to the plate and claim her.
A colleague of mine who is a nationally acclaimed dating coach recently put together a controversial video in which he explains the REAL reason men lie to women they love . . . why men CHEAT on women . . . why men don’t communicate . . . and many of the other questions that drive women crazy about men and make it impossible for women to have the relationships they want.