Karma Relationships

Most people will go through multiple karmic relationships over their life.  They usually are more of a lesson than true love.  Karmic relationships are not the same as soulmate or twin flames relationship and they are mostly sent by the universe so that we can grow as individuals.  Here are some signs of being in a karmic relationship:

Patterns

If you have a relationship that seems to be off and on then this is a sign that it is a karmic relationship.  This is the type of relationship that has problems and should send up a red flag.  These relationships are usually just for learning purposes and you learn when you let them go.

Selfishness

Karmic relationships are not always healthy and sometimes they are self-serving.  These are relationships that can be abusive and ones that people are not very invested in and the one that is invested sees things differently than the other.

Addictive

There are highs and lows in these relationships, and they can be great one minute and bad the next.  Either you or your partner might have different ideas of what love should be and there are different reasons why this relationship might not work out.

Controlling

People in karmic relationships are often times obsessive and controlling.  You might be the one that lets your partner be the center of your universe and base a lot of happiness on them, but the truth it, you aren’t able to see their flaws.

Destiny

Some relationships that are karmic are ones where you feel that you cannot live without them.  You feel that you are meant to be with them, and you cannot understand why things keep going the way they are.  You want the relationship to be right and they are hard to resist, but you aren’t getting anything good in return.

Connection

You might have a relationship that has a strong connection and you feel that you are attached to them instantly.  You will probably be attracted to them the second you see them.

Dependent

This type of relationship makes you feel consumed and is always occupying whatever you do.  You cannot stop thinking about them or being with them and you become dependent on them.

Fears

A karmic relationship can bring things to the surface that you don’t love.  You might begin to feel afraid of being abandoned or afraid that they will reject you.

Irrational

These relationships make you vulnerable and insecure.  You might stop liking who you are and find that you are doing things you would never do.

Dark Side

These people will show you that you are difficult and bring out your bad characteristics.  They will remind you how human you are and that you make many mistakes.

Unpredictable

You might find that in these relationships you don’t know what to expect.  You want to be in a good relationship, and you will let go of yourself for it.

Buttons

The purpose of this type of relationship is so you can learn to love yourself and people around you.  They will show you that you cannot control what happens and you need to work on you.

Lasting

Most of the time the karmic relationship will not last.  They will not be your fairy tale ending and there will be more conflict than there is love.  These relationships are generally unhealthy and do not last for very long.