Whether a face-to-face/sit down / personal visit or through a phone call, chat, or email – we have our own reasons for seeking the help of a psychic. Our hearts know what intentions we had for setting out to speak to one another and also what we hope to hear, what we hope to learn. Some people go to a psychic and have fun, some get into the habit of talking to a psychic, and yet some loathe the experience.
Experiences may vary, but really, the majority of the psychic reading experience is your reaction. Are you prepared to hear bad news? If the psychic vision does not match yours, what then?
Below are things to avoid when setting out to talk to a psychic – these things are actually applicable in some aspects of life and not just to psychic readings.
- Open your mind to the experience
This tip can make or break your very first psychic experience, so it is critical that you keep an open mind while having a reading. Going in with doubts is not new, but do not close your mind entirely because it will generally give you a negative experience, where you’ll end up with more doubts and misconceptions about readings than when you started. Being open is not about being naive, but about listening to what is shared and then making a decision.
- Avoid having unrealistic expectations
Most people go in with expectations that are far from realistic. For example, they want the psychic to guess the lottery number for the following day or the name of their father’s cousin’s aunt. This unrealistic mindset will set the stage for the whole reading and will definitely end up giving you a bad time. These are things to avoid when setting out to talk to a psychic – these things actually are applicable in some aspects of life and not just to psychic readings. Remember, you don’t like it when people have unrealistic expectations of you, so do not treat your psychic in such a manner.
- Don’t look for super-specific information
Just like coming in and having unrealistic expectations, looking for very specific information can be a negative thing. Remember that your reading is meant to help guide you in your journey in this physical realm so that you may get helpful information, but not necessarily the nitty-gritty. The future is not a yes or no thing – as your own future depends on you and your choices. A psychic may be able to predict up to a certain point in your life that would come to an outcome; however, when you do get to that certain point in your life, and you make a decision otherwise, it changes the outcome. Psychics can often offer information about your current path, but a single decision can change your direction, so expect few specifics in a psychic reading.
- Listen to all messages, even those you don’t want to hear
Most people are guilty of this mistake, although they do not really do it on purpose. We do not just do this for psychic readings but also for many aspects of our life, as we tend to shut ourselves off from things we do not want to hear. Most of the time, we already have preconceived notions about things. While there is no problem with setting specific questions, what is wrong is when you ignore messages you hear because they are not in line with what you want to hear. Take in all messages and know that nothing is set in stone. You have the ability to change your life path.
So there you have it. First of all, if it is your first time, treat it as a positive experience even if it is not as expected. You get to consult with another person’s perspective. At the very least, it can be fun, even enlightening. The bottom line is that not everything we ought to hear is what we want to hear because if it were, there would be fewer problems in this world, wouldn’t there? So, be open, have fun, and get that reading.